Marriage restoration

About this programme
When trust has been broken, or you’ve drifted so far apart that you hardly talk, it can feel as if the marriage is already over. Marriage restoration gives you a private place to face what has happened, with a pastor who will listen to you both.
Much of Pastor Victor’s counselling has been with couples in exactly this place. Sessions are based on the Bible and move at a pace you can manage. You’ll talk honestly about what broke, what forgiveness means, and the small, steady steps that rebuild trust.
You’ll agree a plan for your sessions at the start, so you both know what you’re working towards.
It may be right for you if
- There has been an affair or another kind of betrayal
- You feel distant, or you’re living separate lives under one roof
- You argue constantly and nothing gets resolved
- You’re thinking about separating but want to try once more
What the sessions cover
- 01What has happened, and how each of you feels about it
- 02Repentance and forgiveness, and how they differ
- 03Rebuilding trust, one step at a time
- 04Talking without it ending in a row
- 05Praying together again
Getting started
How to start
Send an enquiry and you’ll have a short call before anything is agreed.
01 / Step
Send an enquiry
Tell us a little about yourself and what you’d like help with.
02 / Step
Have a short call
Talk about your situation and which programme is the right fit for you.
03 / Step
Start your sessions
If you decide to go ahead, you’ll receive some welcome information and a schedule for your sessions.
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Further reading

Rebuilding trust
Rebuilding trust after betrayal: where to start
Trust broken by betrayal can be rebuilt, but slowly and on purpose. Here are the first steps for the spouse who was hurt and the spouse who caused the hurt.
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Rebuilding trust
What forgiveness is, and what it isn’t
Forgiveness is central to a Christian marriage, and widely misunderstood. A plain look at what the Bible asks of us when we’ve been hurt.
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Rebuilding trust
Is it too late for our marriage?
When a marriage has been hard for a long time, it’s natural to wonder if it’s beyond saving. Some honest questions to help you think it through.
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If you’d like to talk, send a short enquiry.
Everything you tell us is kept confidential.


